Hello girlies! (Don’t take that profile pic into account, I haven’t updated it in YEARS!) So I felt like I should get a second opinion on this, and a third, and a fourth… A fifth would be great too! Lol.
|May 19, 2015 at 18:22|
I’m in basically the exact same boat except the guy goes to my church. Anyways, I say just continue to be his friend. Honestly, I know how you’re feeling, but it’s sort of a non-issue unless he gets up the gumption to actually ask you out.
|May 21, 2015 at 08:35|
Do you like him at all, or just in a friend way? If you do like him, then I would tell him so, but say you’re just not ready to date yet. No big deal–if he respects you, he’ll wait and you know he’s a good guy, and if he doesn’t want to wait and gives up on you, then, his loss. 😉
If you only like him as a friend, then him liking you is probably just a crush, and just stay his friend and don’t worry about it.
All in all, you aren’t selfish for whatever you choose to do, and while you should do your best to stay kind and speak the truth in love in any circumstance, you don’t have to feel guilty about anything. 🙂
|May 22, 2015 at 08:40|
|May 22, 2015 at 18:34|
(Updated my profile pic btw. Lol. This one’s more up-to-date.)
|May 22, 2015 at 18:41|
So, I realized that I actually don’t like GUY in a romantic way. In fact, I could see myself girl talking with him about the guy I do like. Because GUY 2, as mentioned above, is someone who I just can’t help but feel drawn to. God is really the only explanation for this. He’s telling me that something is going on here. I was just trying to defy God. Thanks so much though girls!
|June 4, 2015 at 15:56|
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