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Am I a tomboy, or a flirt?

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Hey, ladies,
So recently I’ve been noticing that since I was young, I’ve found better friendships in dudes, than in other girls. I’ve always been that girl that would sit at the guy table in Church Kid’s Club, and find it way more fun.
But, as I’m getting older and now that I’m a teenager, I’m noticing that I might seem flirtatious. But I try not to be, but it may seem that way.
I’m quite athletic, you’ll never see me worried about makeup, my nails have no color, and I’m tough. So, that’s the non-girly side of me.
But now that I’m a teen, hanging out with guys is considered “flirting” to many other people. The last thing I want to get wound up in is having to convince others that I’m not flirting with boys.
What should I do?

January 11, 2015 at 08:42


Well, if it’s not a problem right now, there’s no reason to worry about it. If they do start thinking that you are trying to flirt, simply explain to them that it’s not like that and let them believe what they want. What matters is that you hang out with who you want to hang out with.

January 11, 2015 at 13:12


Psh, be you. If someone asks you about it, just let them know that you’re doing what anyone does–hanging out with your friends, being yourself and having a good time. That’s not a crime.

January 13, 2015 at 18:36


Thank you very much, both of you!
At this point, only one person thinks that I “like” this kid, but he’s really just a good friend of mine! It’s just kind of hard to ignore.
Thanks again! 😀

January 14, 2015 at 13:56
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