there is this guy names Luke. I can’t stop thinking about him! I have never felt this way about anyone! whenever i’m with him he makes me feel so alive! and he’s a Christian and he’s just so kind and sensitive. and I have never done this before but his grandpa died recently and he was so sad. and my heart hurt so much to see him sad that I started crying! which like never happens! is this love or a crush?
It’s just a crush! When you are in love that is between two spouses, or the way you feel for your grandfather! Being as young as you are love is a relative term, just don’t give your heart away because he isn’t your husband! You still have a long life ahead and just pray for God to protect your heart and feelings.
No, you are not in love! You are just deeply infatuated/have a crush on the guy! Love is not a feeling- it is an action. At your age, it is very unlikely that this is the guy you would end up marrying. My advice is to keep busy with life. Make sure you have a strong relationship with Jesus and spend a lot of time pursuing your education, doing your interests and spending time with friends. I hope this helps!