So yesterday I posted a fashion look book for winter on Youtube wearing completely modest outfits. I was wearing scarves and boots and sweaters, the like, and was completely covered. My older sister, who is an atheist, said I was acting like I was a porn star. My best friend who comes from a strong Christian family said that my clothes were seductive but the clothes are what I wear everyday and she sees me in those clothes and doesn’t say anything then. She said I was showing off my body but I was really showing the clothes and giving fashion ideas. I feel like fashion is a great way to express your personality.
|December 13, 2015 at 16:57|
It sounds to me like you’re totally fine. Your heart is in the right place, and that’s what’s important. Please link the video though!
I’m not sure why your sister would say such a hurtful thing, my sister has made comments like that (not saying the same thing obvi but just things that are odd and hurtful), and I honestly think it’s just a sibling thing/phase (we’re good friends now). Your sis may be jealous or she could have just been in a bad mood. It’s easy to say things you don’t mean, or that aren’t true, if you’re feeling frustrated or angry about something.
|December 13, 2015 at 19:50|
Hey:) Could you link the video? I find it kind of hard to form a reasonable judgement having not seen it. Just judging on what you have written, I personally don’t see anything wrong with wearing boots and sweaters and so on. Be very cautious with your family and friends- I think that your sister’s comment was really really mean and I think your friend possibly might be jealous…. ( It is a bit strange that she says your clothing is seductive once the video is on YouTube…)
|December 15, 2015 at 09:12|
Sure, thank you guys. I appreciate the feedback. Here’s the video if you want to see it for yourself. https://youtu.be/W4pfvd1hbjU or look up “Sadie DC Winter 2015 Fashion Look book” on YouTube. Please let me know your opinion on if you agree with my sister or friend. I don’t think anything’s wrong, but I would appreciate a second Christian opinion. Thanks 🙂
|December 15, 2015 at 17:46|
The video link is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4pfvd1hbjU Anyways, I think what you were wearing was perfectly fine (the last outfit though, in my personal opinion, is a little short, even if you are wearing leggings.) Other than that, they were all great modest clothes and I’m lovin’ the stitch shirt with leather jacket!
|December 15, 2015 at 18:17|
Thanks, Violet_Sheep! Good to know.
|December 15, 2015 at 20:37|
Those are literally some of the most modest outfits I’ve ever seen. You do not in any way, shape or form resemble a porn star, and I don’t think your clothing or actions are seductive at all.
I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with showing off your body; the problem comes when you intentionally try to seduce a man, which you are clearly not doing.
|December 15, 2015 at 20:45|
Thanks, AventureGirl. I appreciate it.
|December 16, 2015 at 07:48|
There is a lot of controversy about what is modest and what isn’t, especially between Christians. Whatever you want to wear is fine, as long as your main focus is to honor God. Also, I’m praying for your sister, and you just got a new subscriber! =)
|December 17, 2015 at 16:51|
Wow. There is nothing immodest about all the clothes that you are wearing! I will be happy to wear a lot of your fashion choices! I personally don’t think that the moves are seductive- I tend to get the overall impression that you are having fun to show the fashion:)
|December 18, 2015 at 10:17|
Girl your outfits were totally modest and adorable! Great video too!
|December 29, 2015 at 13:11|
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