I’ve been getting to know this really sweet guy for the last 5 months and while we haven’t made it official (distance is a big factor) we definitely are seeking out a relationship. He is always going above and beyond to be here for me, to see me, get me gifts, and to do little things to make me happy. It was weirdly perfect compared to the other guys in life… The only problem is over the last week we didn’t see each other and he has taken a major step back. He doesn’t really respond to my texts now and he seems disinterested in taking to me. The few times he does talk though he will say something sweet like “How is this gorgeous girls day?” but then that’s it. Has anyone else noticed how guys go from being so interested to just MIA randomly? If so any advise on what to do?
|May 8, 2015 at 16:08|
Ah yes, but sometimes that is for the better. I wouldn’t stress out too much over it (easier said then done as I sit anxiously for a reply from my ex), but have trust that the Lord will bring you two together if it is meant to be. But i also realize there is a level of meeting Him half way! I would shoot him a text and be straight up! ask him if he is still interested. It is possible that he realized that the distance was too much for him…that happens! I pray this works out for you both and that i could help in some way!
|May 21, 2015 at 09:42|
Thank you so much! I ended up bringing it up and he said he was stressed and he never meant for be to feel distant and he started paying more attention to me. The only thing now is that he ended up telling me one of his major secrets and now I don’t think we should date… I guess I just need prayers for clarity and healing because he is an amazing guy besides his bad “habit”. But thanks again:)
|May 25, 2015 at 12:28|
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