Squad/tribe/Bffs/what have you. I just don’t feel like I really fit in anywhere. I’ve always had friends, but only very few close friends, and then only for a couple years because I moved around so much growing up.
I’ve also changed a lot regarding my beliefs and I don’t feel as close to my current BFF as I used to. We have different beliefs (though we haven’t really talked about that) and different interests now. A lot of my friends are more fundamentalist Christians and I’m more of a liberal/progressive Christian, I guess. They’re lovely, awesome people, but sometimes I feel like I can’t really be myself. For instance, I couldn’t wear a bikini around them. Stuff like that you know. Also a lot of them are getting married and engaged and that’s not something I can relate to right now. I just wish I could find my people, you know? 😛 Friends who love God and want to travel, have similar interests etc.
|May 10, 2016 at 11:17|
I was 19 before I ended up with a close friend who shared the same beliefs, had similar life experiences, etc. The only thing being is she is married with 2 kids and I am single (and 7 1/2yrs younger than her) but I’d say that you can hang out with friends, but only truly open yourself to 1 maybe 2 people. Everyone else is just there until things get hard.
|May 10, 2016 at 18:14|
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