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Best Guy Friend Might Start Dating The Girl He Likes

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Rin1216

Recently I found out that my best guy friend is going to start dating the girl he likes. Him and I have become pretty close friends over the past year and a half and I really do care about him. I don’t have any feelings for him, but I’m concerned about him as well as our friendship.
He is a senior in high school (as well as myself) and the girl he likes is a sophomore. I personally don’t like the thought of him dating a sophomore because of the age gap as well as he will be going to college in about six months.
When it comes to me, since him and I have become pretty close I’m not ready for him to start dating. I was hoping he would start dating in college so I wouldn’t have to worry about getting in the way because him and I will be at different colleges. I know him and I will never get together because we know we’re not right for each other. I’m just having trouble being okay with the fact that he’s going to date this girl.
Do you girls have any advice on how to learn to be okay with your best guy friend dating another girl? Any tips on how still be friends with your guy friend and not getting in the way of their relationship?
Thanks so much!

February 3, 2015 at 06:34
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chloe523

Honestly, I get that you are concerned, and rightly so. I mean, I agree that it’s not a good idea to start dating right before you go separate ways off to college and stuff. But it’s his life. It’s just something that you have to accept. Not getting in the way is really easy. You just don’t do it and don’t try to interfere with what they have planned. He might want to clear a bit of his schedule for her and that’s okay, as long as he still keeps a balance with his other friends.

February 3, 2015 at 14:36
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caitlynstoltzfus

I kind of know what you are going through.
A guy I’ve known since middle school, who is my best friend, just recently started dating someone. And I actually did have feelings for him, but I knew he didn’t feel the same way so I just pushed them aside. It still hurts a little when he talks to me about his girlfriend, but I just give that hurt and pain to God. We still have our best friend relationship, it is a little different, but not too drastic. Just keep your head up girl, you are so loved.

July 17, 2015 at 16:52
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