Hey! I don’t know if anyone still checks this but I have a question. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now. This is both of our first relationship. We both go to the same church and have the same morals 😊 But sometimes he tells me that I shouldn’t wear certain clothes because they tempt him. Is he being controlling or just trying to get to heaven?!
|February 9, 2016 at 11:51|
Please help me!! I feel like I am failing him whenever I dress in a way he says is tempting!! Is he controlling??? I want help.
|February 11, 2016 at 18:23|
Please help me!! I feel like I am failing him whenever I dress in a way he says is tempting!! Is he controlling??? I want help. I don’t want to lead my boyfriend to sin, but I also don’t want to be told how to dress! What do I do?
|February 12, 2016 at 11:07|
Good luck! <3
|February 12, 2016 at 11:27|
I admire your boyfriend for having such conviction to tell you. A quality guy will want to protect you from causing him and other guys to stumble. If this means wearing less revealing or clothes, then it’s important to remember that doing so causes mutual benefit. He doesn’t feel tempted to do something against his morals, and you can be innocent from causing him to stumble while honoring the body the Lord gave you. It may look like he’s exercising dominance, but as of now, it seems as though he’s only interested in both of your safety and purity. That’s really admirable in a guy.
|March 10, 2016 at 12:05|
Hey there girl!
|March 22, 2016 at 10:01|
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