Hello, ladies ❤️
I recently “broke up” with my “boyfriend”. The reason I put quotes in there is because he never really was my boyfriend and so it wasn’t necessarily a breakup. Anyway, we decided to move on from each other and let each other go. Now I’m sad. I need encouragement and tips to stay strong in who I am in Christ. A lot of times I look back at what I said and think, “Oh, what if he thinks this way about me!?” But I need to let it go. Any help?
|October 10, 2015 at 15:04|
Keep your head up. It just wasn’t in God’s timing. And that’s okay. One day you’ll meet a guy who is all you need and more! He’ll be the Godly man that will lead you in God’s ways. So don’t be sad (:
|November 6, 2015 at 14:38|
I went through the same thing a while ago, and I found that clinging onto him hurt me so much more than letting go did. And I know that it’s so, so incredibly painful to let somebody go. But he didn’t want me, didn’t speak to me even when he promised he would, and even after he broke up with me, I found that I was still working for him with everything I had. It was really damaging, I kept tearing myself down, and I’m still trying to restore all the self-esteem I lost during the whole ordeal, because I was never able to stop asking myself why I wasn’t good enough to make him happy.
I know that it might not be what you want to hear right now (heaven knows I didn’t want to hear it a few months ago), but you just have to wait it out. Because in the end, you will be happy. I promise. God won’t let you end up alone and lost. God places people in our lives to teach us, and if there is more somebody can teach you, they’ll come back. If not, someone who is both a blessing and a lesson is going to show up. We just don’t know when. It can be hard, but take it one day at a time, and try not to worry about what’s going to happen a year, a month, or even a week from right now.
I know that it’s hard. But the thing is, when you get torn down, you get built up, stronger and wiser. And it’s going to be okay.
And above all, you are worth it. Don’t let any part of this allow you to believe that you are inferior or inadequate. You are amazing, brilliant, beautiful, talented, and independent, and don’t ever let yourself think otherwise because of a boy. Because I made that mistake, and I’m still paying for it.
|November 8, 2015 at 13:51|
Hi My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and he said that it wasn’t because he doesn’t love me. He told me that he needs time because he doesn’t feel ready for a relationship now and I’m just so confused and sad because we were already together so don’t understand why he says he’s not ready now . I’m depressed and don’t know what to do , I don’t know if I should wait for him to feel ready or move on , he doesn’t give me a clear answer but he says that he loves me and I’m really in love with him 🙁
|December 1, 2015 at 23:07|
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