I don’t really want to give details and go on forever. I just wanted to ask, any advice for getting closure on a past relationship. its been six months and sometimes, mostly when I’m not busy I think about it a lot and it makes me super sad. I think I should have been able to move on by now but it’s still hard, especially when I see him.
|February 1, 2015 at 22:28|
I completely understand what your going through. It took be a long time, even longer that you, for the pain to go away. But trust me, it does. Maybe whenever you think about him, try to think about something else that really makes you happy. I also found that getting up and doing something, anything, helps.
|February 4, 2015 at 06:07|
How long before stop you felt totally ready to move on? Just out of curiosity (: thank you for your advice
|February 12, 2015 at 22:23|
No “stop” sorry!;p
|February 12, 2015 at 22:24|
Maybe you haven’t forgiven him, or maybe you need to ask for forgiveness? IDK… if I can’t get over someone it’s normally b/c I haven’t forgiven them for something they did, or I haven’t forgiven myself for something I did… Hope this helps! <3<3<3
|February 13, 2015 at 11:31|
I don’t know. That gave me something to think about thanks.
I think forgiveness is definitely a choice. My pastor once said that when you choose to forgive someone it’s not that you feel total happiness towards them. That’s a feeling. And forgiveness isn’t a feeling. So yes I believe I’ve forgiven him…does that mean I’m at total peace? Noo…unfortunately the feelings haven’t come yet. So my prayer isn’t “God help me forgive him” it’s “God helps my feelings to match my choice”
|February 14, 2015 at 19:42|
Yeah… it takes awhile sometimes to regain peace, I guess the only thing you can really do is keep praying and be patient… I’ll be praying for you! <3
|February 17, 2015 at 07:20|
Thanks so much for your prayers! God did some serious healing in my heart and I really know that I’ve let him go(the guy) and God has some amazing great plans for me and my future! Thanks so much
|March 2, 2015 at 19:39|
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