i comproise alot. i give in too easily. i faze myself into beliving a can hold my ground and just be stubborn bt honestly, it doesnt work. i desire to walk right and uphold my priorities, but i seem always to have a logical reason why its okay to change the plan and i end up compromizing in the end. and i only realize it when its already been done. i really hate it. please help pray for me. coz then sometimes i feel like a hipocrite and its hard to pray. i know its d enemy trying to tell me i cant come back, but its such a struggle iv never confronted this problem like this before. all my friends think im this girl that has her life together and has no problem making right decisions always, but i struggle with it.
|October 5, 2016 at 12:45|
Oh girlie, I know how that feels. You see, I’ve never been allowed to date, but my friends always encouraged me to. So I dated behind my parents back a few times. All my friends were saying “oh her life is perfect she does all these things and her parents don’t catch her. Her life is on point” and what-not but it was falling apart. I didn’t realize I was in too deep till it was too late. Compromising is… well I now see it as a sin. I didn’t always. I tell myself I’ll be strong enough but I really wasn’t. I never will be.
|October 5, 2016 at 15:20|
thanx MacDawn1999. i discovered i struggle with it even in little things like taking a decision then someone else has a suggestion that isnt per say bad, but nonetheless would not be that favourable to me. like making up my mind to go left coz its shorter and im tired. but my friend wants to go right which is longer but then im like “well atleast im with a friend it wont seem so long” and other logical reasons only to get home and totally break down coz im exhausted. and thats just to put it lightly. its afecting a whole lot of my life. hate to admit it, but i have to come to terms with it, iv been compromizing in my relationship as well. we are both born again, but when those hormones start acting up, i end up telling myself that its a normal thing or its PMS or something else. God is merciful that either he or i cuts off the engagement before anything “crazy” happens, but i still feel horrible when it happens. its like i cant stand on my word anymore. there are always logical reasons to break it. 🙁
|October 5, 2016 at 23:23|
I know I know… you always feel like you can justify why you are changing your mind? Like maybe you were in the wrong before, but you’re just seeing someone else’s point of view? Maybe giving others a chance to show us their position on the matter. 🙂 It will be okay!! I don’t know if you feel like this when compromising, but it’s some things I used to tell myself to make me feel better about compromising in the past.
|October 6, 2016 at 06:01|
yeah. its like arguing with myself right before i copromise. but afterwards its pretty plain that i was wrong to have done that.
|October 6, 2016 at 22:30|
Yeah. And even afterwards you still want to be like “well i did it because….” but it doesn’t make it any better. I’m sorry I will be praying for you!! God can lead all your decisions, you just have to ask Him 🙂
|October 7, 2016 at 06:15|
thax dear. i feel so low now. it happened again and im sick of it!!!
|October 7, 2016 at 13:20|
status report. so far so good, i had some tight spots but i holding strong to what i know is right for me. thanx for your prayers MacDawn1999
|October 14, 2016 at 00:04|
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