I fell for the pastor’s son at my church who I’ve known all my life and it’s been bothering me a lot. He’s a senior and I’m a junior, so he’ll be going off for college in August next year while I have high school still so before I even get into the “does-he-like-me” stuff there’s already that issue. We’ve been great friends for so long and he knows me super well and I get on with him so great (not to mention he’s a man of God), and there’s so many times that I think he may like me (he stares in my eyes, acts way nicer and more caring to me than any other girl, takes pics of me on his phone, walks me to my car, etc.) but I’m scared he doesn’t like me (cuz he’s been ignoring me at school-but not at church- lately)and about what could happen if he likes me but is going to college 5 hours away soon or if he doesn’t like me and it could ruin our friendship. Everyone at church says we make a cute couple and I guess Im conflicted between wanting it to happen and not. I told his mom (pastor’s wife) and she prayed with me and agrees that he’s pretty shy about his feelings but probably wants to focus on school. I think we’d be great together but if he ends up not liking me and moves on to college Idk if I’ll be happy or really disappointed. Idk. Help!
|December 1, 2014 at 17:45|
Ok, I have no experience with boys and this might not help,but I feel like I would just let it go for the time being. I know it’s hard (again I have 0 experience)! But, try to focus on building yourself right now. If this guy really likes you he’ll come around. I know it’s easier said than done, but from what I hear first year of college can be pretty stressful. I’d pray really hard for him, and if it’s meant to be then so be it. But if not, than I’d enjoy the friendship 🙂
|December 6, 2014 at 17:02|
Hey it’s okay! 🙂 It was really sweet of his mom to pray with you! You’re lucky to have great friends! It sounds like he’s shy about his feelings like she said, and I think you have a good chance of him liking you if everyone says you guys make a cute couple. Plus you also listed some great signs! I hope this helps but it’s just what I think
|December 6, 2014 at 21:53|
Thanks guys 🙂 Stuff has gone really good this past week, I even got to watch a movie with him at his house. I’ll just keep praying.
|December 8, 2014 at 17:58|
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