So, I have a lot of gay friends. They seem to flock to me. I used to start to like a guy but then find out he was gay. But this time I fell in love with a guy who I already knew was gay! What? HELP.
I seriously don’t know what to do. I’ve invited him to church and he doesn’t seem to want to go. I know I can make him do anything. All I really can do is just pray for him and hope that he finds Christ.
Has anyone else been in this situation before?
|March 30, 2015 at 19:08|
Yes. I used to be kind of shy, and gay guys were easier to talk to than regular guys for me.
|March 31, 2015 at 18:29|
I mean, kinda. I had a crush on a straight girl. But it can be so awkward, crushing on someone who, by oritentation, can’t return it
|March 31, 2015 at 19:29|
I had a best guy friend in middle school (and still now lol) and the more we hung out and the way he treated me had made me fall super hard for him. He was the first guy to call me beautiful and he was so godly and compassionate… Long story short in high school (after he moved) I told him how I felt. At that point he came out to me and it hurt really bad to know he’d never truly feel what I felt fr him. Lucky for us our friendship grew so much stronger. It hurts and take time, tears, and very much praying but all you will ever get from him is a friendship. You have to decide if you will eventually be able to just turn your love to him as a friend or if you need to separate yourself from him so your heart can move on. I wish you luck and am sending prayers and strength your way!
|April 7, 2015 at 15:16|
@marysetrueblood dude. have you ever watched kissing jessica stein?
|April 20, 2015 at 20:08|
I can kind of relate! So, there is this guy, at my church actually, who I have known since middle school. We have become really good friends, we hang out and have a ton of fun together. He came out about being gay (via social media) soon after I met him, but never really actually said anything to anyone about it. So, I found myself having feelings for him and thinking maybe he’s not gay anymore? It hurts knowing that he most likely doesn’t feel the same way, but I have been able to move on and accept being good friends, thats it!
I hope you can do the same!
|July 17, 2015 at 14:37|
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