I’m high school junior and I have been dealing with high school “crush”. And I know that these boys I have crush on aren’t my type but every time I look at a guy and I have start to wild imagination about them and want to stop it because I feel like I’ll never have chance with them and they already have girlfriends; keep on telling myself that God know what type of man I need but still kept on thinking about them. Also, I start to realize that the reason I have crush on guys because of their appearance and not their heart. Any advices on what should I do?
|March 20, 2015 at 19:56|
Try to ignore them. I’ve been doing this for quite a while and if you ignore them and dig into your Bible, I can tell you it gets MUCH easier! If you can try not to look at them as much it helps. But what really does wonders is when you dive into your bible searching for wisdom on the subject. I hope this helps in some way.
|March 21, 2015 at 20:30|
I`d also say to grab a few bible verses to have up your sleeve whenever you have these thoughts. You have to make the effort though to refuse to entertain them. Here`s two bible verses I got from a book called Lies Young Women Believe and the Truth that Sets them Free, Romans 6:6-7, Titus 2:14. Hope this helps 🙂
|March 27, 2015 at 22:19|
I deal with this too. When I catch myself doing it, I made a habit of stopping everything and taking a pen and writing everything I want in my husband on my hand or on a piece of paper and ask God that I will be satisfied through the strength he provides me. It really helps me come back to earth.
|March 28, 2015 at 22:03|
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