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Hey, girls! I have a question. I want to court my best friend. But we are waiting because we both know we aren’t ready. But when the time comes, Lord willing, I want to date him without actually dating him. You’re probably confused 🙂 What I mean is, I just wanna act like we’re friends, completely. We’ll get to know each other and then maybe get engaged? Is this possible? How can I date without actually dating? Because I don’t wanna go through the whole dating thing. I just wanna find my best friend and marry him. Thanks! -Jilly

September 15, 2015 at 20:45


Hey, girl! You helped and encouraged me so hopefully I can do the same.
I totally get what you’re saying, in fact, that’s pretty much my desire when it comes to “dating” too! I suggest that you both discuss guidelines first. Whether that be waiting to kiss on your wedding day or wait till you’re engaged, no holding hands, always having chaperones, whatever the Lord leads you to do. I also suggest going on group dates or just getting to know each other better in group settings whether they be friends or family. I wouldn’t suggest being completely alone because that could tempt you to break your guidelines. Just make sure to pray and let God guide your decision making (even better maybe your man will pray with you!)
I hope everything works out for you! I think it’s awesome that y’all started out as best friends! I hope this helped in some way!:)

September 17, 2015 at 21:37
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