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Alright ladies! I’m in a bit of a “situation”. I’ll cut right to the chase: I’m living with 4 guys next year for school, starting in August.

I’m 20 years old, I’ll be a 3rd year at the engineering university I’m attending, and I’m in need of some guidance. I’ve known these guys for the past 2 years, and they’re some of my best friends – they’re definitely my best guy friends. I know that 3 out of the 4 are for sure Christians, but they’re more “closet Christians” that act quite worldly. I don’t judge, but I’ve found myself in this situation and I’m wondering if you have any advice for me. There was suppose to be another girl besides me, but she was the girlfriend of one of the guys, cheated on him, and left. So now it’s just me. There are 3 bedrooms upstairs, and I’m sharing the basement with the 4th guy.
I know that it’s not an ideal situation, but I trust these guys with my life and what’s more is that I had/have nowhere else to go.

I know this isn’t going to be as easy as a Disney maiden living in a house full of men. It’s not gonna be Snow White and the Seven Dwarves, it’s gonna be 4 college guys (who are definitely men in each of their own rights) and me. Any advice for me on how to live appropriately in this house for the next 9 months?

June 30, 2015 at 14:14
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I would not advise this situation, for reasons you have already stated. Is there anyone else you can get to move in, another girl? Or maybe you have a girl friend you can share rent with in a different apartment? Have you contacted your university about other options? Maybe if you state it’s against your religious beliefs they will make priority.
If you end up having to live there, make sure to set some boundaries before you move in. Make it clear your intentions are honorable. Really spell it out. If there’s one guy you trust most, maybe have him share the basement with you.
Bottom line: don’t feel you have to accept something that compromises your beliefs. It obviously made you uncomfortable for a reason.

July 9, 2015 at 14:27
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