So lately I’ve been having a lot of sexual desires surfacing. And I’m having a really hard time keeping my crush/best friend out of it. Does anyone have any advice for self control? Not just of actions, but of thoughts as well. It just really bothers me that I keep thinking of him like that, when there really is much more to our relationship than physical attraction. :/
I know your post is from a few months ago, but I wanted to post anyways. 🙂 I too have had that problem, and it’s not okay. It causes lustful thoughts and they need to be stopped. I am not accusing you of anything, I am only speaking from experience. Trust me, those desires will only escalate into bigger problems.
My advice to you, would be to take this very seriously. Pray. I know prayer can be taken lightly, but it shouldn’t. It changed my life. I recommend the movie War Room if you want to learn more about prayer. I started my war room and ever since, I’ve felt free and changed! I will pray for you! Hopefully everything is going alright, as your post was from a while ago. 🙂 Blessings!