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I have a moderate disability that if it remained the same as it is now would make it very difficult if not impossible to raise kids, just because of the energy required every day. I know Christian romantic relationships are supposed to lead to marriage (free, total, faithful, and fruitful love), but a man willing to be chaste and maybe childless for life to be with a disabled girl would be either crazy or a saint, and I couldn’t do that to him. So do I just give up romantic thoughts/relationships altogether? How can I know where God is leading me? Thank you. <3

July 8, 2015 at 06:37
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Hi i also have a disability and am returning to God through my ultimate healing process. He has a plan, remember that. Keeping myself busy is what helps me the most since I focus less on my energy level (also the same worries about meeting the right man who will accept my disability)

level when I am busy. I am sending prayers to you! I

count my blessings on good days and that is one way that God reminds me how amazing I am doing, and how amazing I will be.

Cucumbersandwhich, do not loose hope. Hope is everlasting, and so is love

July 26, 2015 at 20:50


In God’s eyes, you don’t have a disability,you are healed,so…..don’t believe you can’t have kids,because God is a miracle worker.Pray for healing.

March 22, 2016 at 18:16


Uhhh ok forgive my directness but do you mean you can’t have sex, or you can but cannot have children?

It’s ok to be in a marriage and not have children. God does not call every couple to be parents 🙂

April 27, 2016 at 20:49
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I also have a disability that makes it impossible for me to have children. I’ve been struggling with that recently, but I came across several bible verses in the book of Isaiah talking about God’s redemption of Israel. In the passages the metaphor of a childless woman was used and yet it still said to rejoice because the Lord is with you. I wish I could give you the exact verses but I did not mark them. If you love children, there are a lot of ways to have them in your life. I plan on working with children at my church and being a Big Sister with the Big Brothers & Sisters organization. Also, I believe that there are many men that don’t want children. The world is changing and there are many women and men who are choosing to remain childless to pursue their own passions. It is a hard thing to cope with when you desire children, but there is hope. God has a plan for those of us who struggle because of our disabilities and he certainly has a plan for you and your suffering. Stay strong!

May 17, 2016 at 09:27
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