Hi everyone 🙂 Okay, so, this may be a little long. There’s this guy that I’m crazy about, (we’ll call him M) and I have been for a little over 2 years (crazy, I know), and we’ve been good friends for a while now. He’s a pastors kid, and I met him at youth group when we were in 8th grade. We used to go to his church, but we switched churches, but I still attend the youth group there. M and I also go to the same school, we’re both in 10th grade. Him and I don’t hang out too often, but when we do, we always have a really fun time together and we always enjoy each others company. He’s really into music, and he’s super duper talented when it comes to singing and playing guitar (it’s one of the things I like about him). Another thing I love about him is that he loves God so much. He’s not the type of guy to flirt and date a bunch of girls, he plans on dating one girl (“The One”) and marrying her after courting, and I’m the same exact way when it comes to dating. There’s this girl that he *used* to like back in 8th grade, but they’ve parted ways since then, though they talk every once in a while. This girl (S) and I used to be friends, but she actually stopped being my friend when I told her that I like M, so she isn’t always very nice to me.
|April 11, 2015 at 13:23|
Hey girl! Okay, so based on what I’ve read, he sounds like a great guy and a potential boyfriend. Don’t worry about the texting; some people just aren’t as into it as others. I’m not a huge texter. Not because I don’t care about my friends or anything like that, it’s just not my thing. And if you’re not sure about what message this guy is trying to give you, ask him. I did this with a guy and it actually worked out pretty well. I’d ask him during a time when it’s easy to talk and to not make it awkward. Just say, “Hey M, I know this may be weird, but I’m kind of confused. Is this a date or not?” He’ll probably ask you if you want it to be, and from there the ball’s in your court. The only thing is to make sure that this is what God wants. From what I’m seeing, He probably approves, but I’m not going to put words in His mouth. Just pray and hope that He leads you in a good direction. Hope this helps!
|April 11, 2015 at 17:36|
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