I have been exclusively talking to one guy for about 4 months now, but we had been good friends for a year and a half before. He hasn’t made me his girlfriend yet, but he keeps telling me it will happen “soon.” His ex comes to me to tell me different things about him and their past relationship, but when I address those concerns with him, he denies them or tells me that he said something or did something for a good reason. Recently, a friend of mine told me that his friend said he tried talking to her about a month before he and I started talking, but a few days ago he wanted her to go to his apartment so he could do something sweet for her, and last week he had put his arm around her but quickly moved it when the others turned around. I don’t know what to do, because he always tells me he’s trying to change, he doesn’t want to make the same mistakes he made in the past, etc. But, he also tells me he loves me. I want to address this issue with him, but I’m almost positive he would deny it or come up with another reason for it. I don’t know what or who to believe, and everything I hear really confuses me.
|April 10, 2015 at 08:31|
Keep in mind when reading this that I have NEVER had a boyfriend, but have seen enough relationships crumble to know when something’s amiss. First of all, if his ex is talking about him, disregard it. Ex-girlfriends have no right talking trash about a guy unless he did something awful like rape her or abuse her or something. And if he did, well… then run for your life and don’t waste on your time on him.
|April 10, 2015 at 21:23|
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