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DestyneeB

DestyneeB

Hi PI Girls, I need your help with a friend. I recently confirmed to my friends that I will be waiting until marriage to have sex, and while they respect my choice they have their own views on this matter which is fine. However one of my best friends claims to want to wait until marriage, she has recently indulge in loads of sexual immortality and suffers from watching porn. I know it’s bad, but while she is doing all of this when she comes to “confess” to me her sins it feels as if she is more scared of my reaction than being concerned about what God wants for her. Now I am at a crossroads, I don’t know how to help he because while I for many reason will be waiting until God leads me to marriage (if it is in His will), I don’t condemn my friends for having sex and believe we all forge our own path to finding God. Basically I just want to know how do I help her mostly, but all friends from turning to sexual immortality and fearing God is better than fearing humans?

December 28, 2014 at 20:24
justanothergirl

justanothergirl

wow. . .porn is a tough road. It tears you up inside and really causes you to question a lot of stuff.
1, PRAY for her!!!! There is a battle going on, for her mind, thoughts and heart. Someone will win, the more we pray and lift her up to Christ the more we enable the angels to fight off the demons.
2. LOVE her. this may not seem like a lot but while I was going through it all I needed was someone to tell me they loved me to my face. Act upon it, be kind, understanding and helpful.
3. ACCOUNTABILITY is important. I know it gets hard because you don’t want to think about it all the time but ask her how she is doing, when she is tempter tell her to call or text you so that you can pray for her. Let her know that you are there for her.
4. SPACE. Give her some space. Some things you have to learn on your own. She needs to really hate the sin and know the reason why she hates it (because God does and it isn’t of Him). She has to find that on her own, until she grasps that for her own she won’t take the sin for all that it is. She shouldn’t use you as a crutch or a place she can run to after she’s messed up. That needs to be God and she has to figure that out on her own. That may mean you need to take a step back and tell her that although you are praying for her you really think she needs to turn to God, not you. Praying that she gets past this and that you have the love and strength to help her! 🙂

December 30, 2014 at 03:57
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