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Linerss

I met this guy once that I really started to like and then didnt see him for a while but then later on he started going to my school and there was thing going on between me and him. I made a mistake by saying I love you to him on the first two days we dated. I really realy liked because thats the first guy I liked aftter I got raped. The way he asked me out was romantic. Well.. we lasted 4 days because he thought I was cheating on him but I wasent. He thought i was messaging this guy and telling him stuff but I wasent. I felt like crying 24/7. Cause again I was hurt. He also was saying stuff about me to other people and everything.
Later on he matured started dating this one girl from a different school and they lasted for a whole year then broke up and now I have MAJOR feelings for him again. After me and him broke up we never really talked and everything was always weird between us. I really like him and I know I am not suppose to because he hurt me but I just can’t hide those feelings away.
I once tried to somehow talk to him but I just never could because for some reason words couldnt come out of my mouth. ( I talk alot btw) This one time he was sad I couldnt even say the simple words ” are you okay”. Everytime I see him for some reason I keep imaging him holding me and me being happy with him but I know he probably hates me and thinks im stupid or something.
I am trying really hard to stop and block those feelings away but I just cant.

February 15, 2015 at 19:19
Linerss

Linerss

I dont know what to do about him. Should I talk to him ? Should I tell him everything right away ? Should i block those feelins away?

February 15, 2015 at 19:19
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rinnierose

I’ve been/am there too… It’s really hard and sadly I don’t know how to handle situations like that. I think its super important to keep turning those thoughts/feeling to God and asking him to fill your broken heart with His love. Make sure you have some good friends to help distract you or to listen when you are just having a hard day.
I think it’s harder for you too because you had a traumatic experience and in some ways he was feeling the emptiness that was left behind… I certainly am sorry and cant begin to imagine what you have been through but I do know that God loves you unconditionally through all of this. I ws in a really dark place and I tried to let a guy fill that brokenness I had and when he left me it was really really hard… It takes time, tears, and lots of prayer but you will make it through and some day when your heart is healed you’ll find an even better man who will love you so much!
I love ya and am praying for your situation! You’re one tough girl though and I promise one day it will be easier and not hurt so bad!

February 17, 2015 at 23:28
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