Tagged: Boys dating
So it seems like every time I find a nice, decent guy, I find out that he either smokes, sleeps with other girls, or is just a flat out jerk. This has happened every time I start talking to a guy. It’s really frustrating.
|December 11, 2015 at 22:22|
Ugh, I feel you!! I go to an international school where there aren’t really many Christians and a lot of guys are like this….sometimes I just feel like wow there are no decent guys out there! But i do think that somewhere out there, there are good, nice Christian guys who will be great for us 🙂 My instagram is @danielle_johnson_ if you ever want to talk 😀
|December 17, 2015 at 09:23|
Oh my gosh!! I totally, totally understand. Every time I start to talk or like a guy, I always ind out that they are faking their relationship with God, are emotionally abusive, swear and joke about inappropriate things etc. and I find them at Church or a Christian camp or even my Christian school. It’s so nice to know other girls struggle with this too 🙂 The thing that helped me the most was I got to know there personality really, really well before I started to like them and it has actually shown me a lot of things. Just pray everyday or every other day or something for your future husband and we need to work on being who our spouses are looking for. Because they might be thinking there are no good Christian girls left.
|December 21, 2015 at 17:03|
I know the struggle as well. I also think it is amazing that you aren’t willing to settle. The world tells us we need a love relationship but in all honesty, if a Guy doesn’t put God first, he is probably doing the stuff y’all are describing and that is not worth settling for
4LibbyWelch@gmail.com if y’all ever want to talk
|December 23, 2015 at 13:25|
I know what that feels like, too. And it seemed to me for a while like I just couldn’t find a decent guy; there was no one at my school who I liked or anything. But from my experience, God always has a plan and He has someone perfect for you. I recently started dating this guy who I had known for years from my youth group. When it started seeming impossible to find someone, we figured out that we both believe that it’s God’s plan for us to be together. And now I know why there was no one else I liked; it was so that now, I could be with my boyfriend, and I couldn’t be happier. I know that God has someone perfect for you, and you just need to be patient and wait for the perfect time when God will reveal him to you. And also, I agree that we should always strive to be the person our future spouse wants us to be. 🙂 Praying for you! Jesus loves you 🙂
|December 31, 2015 at 23:37|
Lexi7, that is some really good advice! I’ve been struggling lately with remembering what I’ve been waiting for. What you said just reminded me what I’m waiting for :). Thank you!
|January 6, 2016 at 19:48|
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