Ok so I am a 20 year old girl who has never dated/courted, had a first kiss, etc. I have made a commitment to save sex for my wedding night. And for the longest time I thought I would save my first kiss for my wedding day as well. But here is the problem: I and this guy are really interested in each other. This has possibly been my biggest crush yet. There is something about this guy that I love. We are not dating or courting….yet. But I have come to realize that I care about this guy so much (more than I can afadmadmit), that I want to kiss him.
|July 13, 2015 at 21:44|
And sorry for the long post!!!
|July 14, 2015 at 07:11|
I think 1. you should pray and 2. you should talk it over with him (your friend) and see where he stands on it. Personally, I think as long as you both are committed to the relationship and it doesn’t go farther than a kiss, I would feel okay with a kiss now or a kiss after being engaged plus I’d be nervous having the first kiss in front of everybody. I’m definitely gonna be nervous kissing in front of people in the first place, I’m shy like that 🙂 Hope this helps!
|July 17, 2015 at 18:21|
I would also say that if you personally know that you feel convicted not to kiss before you get married, than I would definetly say to stick with your decision, the Bible says in Romans 14:5 to “..Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind.“ If you`re convinced you shouldn`t do it, than don`t. Hope this helps 🙂
|August 21, 2015 at 14:31|
I’ve made a commitment to save sex for marriage as well, but I think kissing is fine. However, if you are convicted to save kissing for marriage as well, good for you. Always follow your conscience. That being said, why do you feel its necessary to save kissing for marriage?
If I were to save my first kiss for marriage, I would definitely want it to be private. It’s not really a big deal, just ask the preacher not to say “You may now kiss the bride” at the end of the ceremony.
|August 21, 2015 at 18:03|
My mom and dad didn’t kiss at their wedding. Agree with AdventureGirl! Don’t feel like it has to be public. Let God choose the timing…
|October 21, 2015 at 08:22|
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