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faithful_soul

faithful_soul

Hey, girls! I hate to do this but I need feedback or support on a guy issue!?? ๐Ÿ˜› Here we go…
So I met a guy at my church 3 years ago and ever since he has kept coming. When he first started coming he quickly became friends with my brothers and then gradually he and I did too. Ever since we became friends I’ve always liked him as a little more. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ™‚ As time has gone on we’ve gotten closer and really enjoy being together.
Now..my drama with him. We we’re only just reg. friends until this summer. So this summer we went on a missions trip and he kinda started flirting. ๐Ÿ˜ Like he would compliment me, try to get me to smile, give me his hat when it rained, randomly give me a smolder face to make me laugh (guys it’s like literally the best expression ever) and all, but he only did those things for me. And as time has gone on he compliments me more and always say at least “hi” to me before leaving WITH A quick HUG ๐Ÿ˜‰ which is new. But like here’s DA JUICE! last was so awkward because as he came out of his class and as I was going to mine (he’s a little older so he’s in a different class) he walked towards me and loudly (but as he would say smoothly) ๐Ÿ™‚ said “Hey, good looking!”. Like WHY!? and I so famously responded awkwardly was like “WHAT DID YOU JUST CALL ME?” and he said “you heard me..(I kept walking) wait aren’t you going to give me a hug? ๐Ÿ™ “…I gave him a side one a quickly walked away as he smiled. Like does he like me or is he just trying to make me smile. He seriously just has thrown me off today thinking about it! Bc why??????
[Also 3 people have asked me if I want to date him and my mom wants me to XD but, I can’t date for at least another year and a 1/2 (because my dad has rules).] Do you think he might want to though. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ˜€

December 1, 2016 at 14:35
faithful_soul

faithful_soul

I just realized that I have like the same problem that MacDawn1999 had…I just stressed a little more ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜€
http://www.projectinspired.com/girl-talk/topic/intentions/

December 1, 2016 at 15:21
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

Lol, And my advice will be similar to MacDawn’s: DON’T get your hopes up. I would say that yes, he sounds like he does, but that will only get your hopes up. Wait until he actually solidly tells you or just confront him like: “Stop messing around. Do you like me or not?” XD I know.
Watch how he acts around other girls. I in particular do not trust the faithfulness of a male, but just observe:)
I hope my pessimistic advice helps LOL

And don’t worry. Everything will work out for the good ๐Ÿ˜€

December 1, 2016 at 15:25
faithful_soul

faithful_soul

Thanks that helps and like I know this is weird but if he keeps acting like this I might just walk up to him and be like “Hey kid…do you like me or not huh?”, because its really annoying if he’s just flirting for fun…why they got to be like dis? But really thank you bc even though I know God knows whether anything will happen or not I just don’t like being led on..at least not without knowing. I WONT GET THOSE HOPES UP *recites to self*…now I’m good. ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜Œ

December 1, 2016 at 15:44
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D:D:D:D

December 2, 2016 at 06:15
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

OMGOODNESS HELLO FELLOW TRAVELER IN THE “BOYS NEED TO MAKE UP THEIR MINDS” WORLD! *disclaimer: I’m really weird, sorry not sorry lol*
Okay so thru my little to none experience this is what I think works. Ask him, if he is a Christ-follower and you are comfortable with this, then ask him what his intentions are. Sometimes, guys don’t understand that they are leading girls on. (guys can be blind like that… crazy, i know) and sometimes they think we are confusing (weird…) anywayyyyyy be up front with him. If this is something you think could actually happen someday (being as you can’t date for another year or so (lol same)) then discuss it with him. And, in the event it doesnt turn out like you wanted, remember that it is all going to work out to God’s will. Plus, (this is something i’ve had to repeatedly tell myself) why worry about you and this guy now, when it couldnt happen now anyway? (does this make sense?) just keep guarding your heart. You’ll know what to do when the time comes ๐Ÿ™‚

December 6, 2016 at 12:14
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