Okay so if the title didnt tip you off:
So yknow how unless if your best friend is in a relationship too she (or he) gets really annoyed that you wont shut up about your new boyfriend and she (or he) slowly stops hanging out with you because she (or he) has to bedazzle her (or his) turtle?
And yknow all the little cute couple-y stuff that you wanna tell everyone that will listen about but youre just afraid to because you dont wanna be THAT person?
And yknow when he looks at you and says something really freakin cute and funny and you wanna tell someone but you have that hesitation because everybody hates you by this point?
Yeah, i get all that too.
Thats why ive made this forum. Because im in a really fantastic relationship and i have no one to rant to because im in between having a girl bff and my best friend is my boyfriend, but he already knows all this stuff and he kinda just tunes out after 47 seconds. Unlike us girls, who can just talk and talk for hours without break and not be bored.
SO, with that impressively long intro outta the way, ill start this baby off with my love story. Btw it doesnt matter how long or short your posts are, plus you dont have to be in a relationship to post. If you just wanna say “omg ive always wanted someone who would do ___ for me” or whatever it may be.
Btw im changing some of these names.
It all happened on the first day of school. (ill keep this story as short as i possibly can, i promise.) Wait lets get some back story first, shall we?
Rewind: The last time i was on this site i still lived in GA. Now i live in NC. In March last year i started talking to this guy from Colorado, and we started dating. I was still dating this guy when i moved to NC, and i told him that i wouldnt leave him for someone else (oops hehe). I moved to NC a week before school started, and i got enrolled into the nearby high school the very next day. Since i had plenty of credits (it was my senior year), i got to choose which elective classes i wanted to be in. My dream is to be a photographer, so, naturally i picked the photography class. Heres the thing: i shouldnt even have gotten into that class. There were 80 students that were signed up to take that class. Somehow, i got in even though i signed up for it last. Well anyways, thats where i met my future husband. 🙂 Not over exaggerating either.
Okay, back to the story. First day of school in public school ever. Freaking the fudge out, right? Homeschooled up to my senior year. My very first class, boom there he is, Chase ____. Honestly, i dont really have a clear memory of him for the first few weeks of school cause i wasnt really paying attention to him. That first day he came across as the class clown, and a redneck. So, eww, no thank you.
You can imagine my humiliation.
This story is taking forever, time jump: The day before thanksgiving break. We had a fieldtrip to the local elementary school to paint their sidewalk. We were a photography class, but we got a new teacher halfway through the semester and she was an art teacher so we just went with arting from then on. Anyways, that day was the first time we ever really talked. Had a few conversations, got to know one another. He was flirting with me pretty hard all day and i wasnt trying to flirt back, but i struggled. Nothing was awkward, everything felt natural and laid back. At one point he said “were gonna go paint over here.” and i followed him and we sat down all the way at the end of the sidewalk and painted a landscape together. Everytime i would starting talking longer than a few seconds he would stop and look at me and listen to me.
Okay that is only the beginning of my story, but this is already way too long and i feel like only one person is going to actually read all of it. Ill post more of my story in the posts to follow, now i wanna hear all of yalls stories! 🙂
|June 2, 2015 at 06:43|
That’s adorbs, yes it is :3 But what did you do about your other boyfriend??? I needs to know this information!!!
P.S. M is super teasing about this but it’s actually adorable and hilarious and I love it :3
|June 6, 2015 at 20:43|
I’m not in a relationship either, but, again, I am close (I think) to being in one.
|June 7, 2015 at 16:44|
AWEEE those stories are fantastic! Each one is different and unique and its so great how unexpected little things like that start a relationship.
ktuck22 you wanted to hear about what i did, so i shall tell you 🙂
right now i am fighting a sinus infection and i cant sleep so why not, right? Talking about him makes me feel better. Today he texted me and asked if i wanted a frappe from mcdonalds bc he knows those are practically the one thing i like from there. So he stops by my house and gives it to me and asks how im feeling and we talk for about 5 minutes. When i get inside my mom goes “what is this? I didnt know we had drive-by sick service!” cause she has a sinus infection too right now and so she was borderline jealous lol. I texted him and told him what she said and he goes “i would have gotten her something too, but i only had enough money for one!” then he says “im so happy i got to see you today, even if only for a moment. I hate seeing you like this. You needed to be better about 3 days ago.”
The day before i got sick him and i went to the mall bc ive just graduated and ive got some walking around cash. He didnt want to go anywhere bc he was broke and he didnt want me paying for anything, men right? I told him “youve spent so much money on me already, now its my turn. I kinda owe you” Cause its true. Hes spent hundreds of dollars on me, and its annoying bc i hate ppl spending money on me. Its a big point of pride for me. Anyways, so we get to the mall and go into Belk’s. One of my favorite things to do is test him, we always do this. I say “Okay, pick out what i would wear.” And he does! Every time he picks out one of my favorite things. Its mind blowing honestly. He knows me so well.
I never spend money, i hate doing it and i always think everythings too expensive. I was thinking about buying a pair of flipflops and the reason why i was struggling was bc theyre $80. To help me, he pulled out his phone and calculated everything out to help me decide. I finally decided to not get them, not worth the money, but he was patient with me. Then i bought us chic-fil-a and he was so uncomfortable it was hilarious.
Then when i was looking at some clothes he walked up to me holding a candle and said “whether you like the smell of this or not depends on if were getting married or not.” So i cautiously smell it and i said i did. Then without breaking eye contact, he slowly starts bending down to one knee. I turned away cause it was embarrassing but i couldnt stop laughing.
Okay, just had to put that in there XD hes freakin wonderful.
Alright, so i come back from thanksgiving break. And of course im late for school, so guess what i had to do? Walk into class…while everybody is staring at me. You try to make a silent entrance cause hes looking at you. You try to be normal and not draw attention to yourself bc of the circumstances you had left in. Well that failed miserably. Couldnt make eye contact with him after i walked in, which didnt matter bc he wouldnt look at me anyways.
So that didnt help. Eventually what happened is that my boyfriend could tell that i was upset, so he wanted to call. I was mortified. How in the world could i explain all this to him when im talking to him on the phone? It was nerve racking. I broke down and told him all about Chase and how i had grown to like him. My boyfriend was really angry that i would even consider breaking up with him after all we had been through for this random guy i had only been talking to for a week. I felt so bad. We ended the phone call by him telling me “just text me when youve made a decision. I still love you” then he hung up. As if i needed even more drama.
Plot twist, right? Werent expecting that! XD Oh you think THATS bad? Try having to face the guy you just rejected first thing the next morning. I suggested to my friend that i could just sit in her class with her. I didnt want to go to class. I tried everything, even tried faking sick. I dropped off my bookbag in the classroom when i first got to school then almost ran out of there just in case he was about to get into the classroom. I walked in the halls with my friend till there was only 3 minutes till school started. I begged her to stay with me but she had to leave to get to her class, and then i was on my own.
Alright thats where the story is stopping for now. Its 3:20am right now and ive been writing for over an hour. So yeah, ill finish the story later! Not really sure how to end this post. So bye.
P.S. ~ is it conceited to be in love with someone whose exactly like you? Bc he is, we have the same thought process and were exactly the same person. Usually opposites attract, but since hes so much like me i guess its appealing, idk. And you would think that since were so much alike that we would never fight, but we fight quite a lot in my opinion. Its bc were both hardheaded and we never want to admit that we are wrong.
|June 12, 2015 at 00:23|
Okay, serious drama, girl. Serious. Drama. That’s crazy!!! It’s like a TV show; I need the next installment NOW! And no, it’s not selfish to like someone like you. It’s just that you like him. You guys understand each other because you’re so alike and that’s really helpful.
Okay so me and B are doing well! We’re actually official!!! He’s my first boyfriend and I’m pretty stoked 🙂 Also… I had my first kiss with him a little over a week ago!!! It was straight out of a movie, let me tell you. No, really, let me tell you!
So he took me out to eat and then we walked around the mall for a little bit. Fun fun! Then we left and we drove around looking for a place to chill and talk or something (we do that and it’s fun). So he picks the empty parking lot of this little country church. And let me tell you, this is a scenic spot. Across the street from the church is this huge field, just a vast expanse of grass on a small hill outlined with some trees (haha that’s Indiana for you). The sun is just starting to go down over that field. So I got out of the car to see it better and he got out, too, and came and put his arm around me. The music was still playing inside his car (I had my door open), and suddenly, the usual playlist of metal music turned to a slow song. So we. Start. Dancing. Slow dancing in an empty parking lot with a slow song facing the sunset over a field. Can you GET any more perfect than that?!?! So I figure when the slow song was over, it would switch back to metal. It didn’t. IT PLAYED ANOTHER SLOW SONG. AND THEN ANOTHER AFTER THAT. B was like “My iPod knows!!!” and I laughed. We talked a little, but not a lot, just swayed to the music. And then after the third song, metal came back on, so I went in and switched it back to the last slow song and we kept dancing. And then he got really close to my face and his eyes were closed and I just felt so ready (BUT HE CERTAINLY TOOK HIS SWEET TIME GETTING THERE) and so he just leaned really close and took his hand and tilted my chin up and he kissed me. While slow dancing in an empty parking lot facing a field where the sun was going down.
I had always dreamed of having my first kiss in a situation like that. I’m so lucky that it happened that way.
After that, we sat on the hood of his car and watched the rest of the sunset and talked about clouds and how God has a sense of humor and he kissed me a little more 🙂 And I straight-up told him I had no idea how to kiss and he was like “Was that your first kiss?” and I was like “Yep” and he was like “Aww well it just takes a little practice.” He’s super sweet though, he really is.
So that’s my life right now! I’m excited to hear about yours again!!!
And f u, I hope you two work out too, you sound super cute 🙂
|June 21, 2015 at 19:47|
And now he’s not texting me back. And I don’t know why. Just in case you wanted to hear about my life.
|June 24, 2015 at 19:18|
Just kidding it’s chill
|June 25, 2015 at 16:43|
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