Alright so I have a friend who goes to my school and lets call him N. So N has been one of my good friends for about a year and we just have a lot of common interests. He’s a really funny and great guy that I actually look up to as a leader (he is involved with many activities and takes a lot of leadership positions). But I don’t like him like that! For one thing he has a girlfriend and I would never mess with anyones relationship, but also, I just don’t see N that way and I never have.
|December 6, 2014 at 11:04|
|December 6, 2014 at 16:14|
-__- Yes I realize but how? I don’t want to make it more awkward
|December 10, 2014 at 10:43|
Sorry, that was really blunt XD
|December 10, 2014 at 19:58|
Haha it’s okay. And the thing is, he doesn’t say it to my face ya know? He told a mutual friend that he thinks I like him and ever since, I’ve noticed that it gets awkward whenever I do try to be friendly (and by that I mean more than usual like going out of my way to talk to him or ask him how he’s doing with certain stuff he’s been going through). He’s never actually mentioned it to my face before, it’s just one of those things that I know is there.
|December 11, 2014 at 14:59|
I would nonchalantly just bring it up somehow. “Just so you know, I’m not flirting with you. I’m being friendly. In case you were confused. Now what were you saying about the puppy that jumped into a pool full of jelly?”
|December 11, 2014 at 19:22|
lol I’ll think about it. Thanks 😛
|December 13, 2014 at 05:23|
I have a similar problem right now. My best friend told me he likes me and wants to be more than friends! I guess for the longest time, he interpreted my joking around and being nice as flirting, which it definitely was not. So the whole time he’s been building up feelings for me, and I haven’t in return. So now things are awkward and I don’t want them to be. So if you want we could trade advice lol 🙂
|December 18, 2014 at 13:46|
Haha yea that really sucks. The only thing is that when my guy friend thinks I’m flirting he gets weirded out by it cause we are just friends and I would be just as weirded out if he were flirting with me. But he’s friendly and nice to me and I don’t mistake it for flirting so he shouldn’t
|December 29, 2014 at 17:48|
OH mah goodness. Simple solution: STOP BEING FRIENDLY. ok there ya go.
|December 31, 2014 at 16:02|
I wasn’t going to expand on that but then I decided ‘why not?’
|December 31, 2014 at 16:06|
|December 31, 2014 at 21:10|
Lol BRUH. I actually say that way to much. It’s actually not much of a problem anymore. I just got really fed up with it and I haven’t talked to him all of winter break, which is kind of weird since we are used to talking more but it’s whatever. It’s better than having him accuse me of flirting when I’m really just over here like yay friendship -.-
|January 2, 2015 at 04:23|
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