I have two strong Christian, best friends in my school. I am a Junior in HS, and it has taken me FOURTEEN YEARS to find these two girls that make me feel like I belong somewhere… except lately, they haven’t.
|October 11, 2016 at 11:36|
Ohhhh NO that sucks.
|October 11, 2016 at 16:16|
Hello again 🙂 Thank you for your advice. I do have quite a few really strong Christian friends that I met at this camp this summer… but they all live far away. I just wish that I had friends- true friends- here where I live… ya know?
|October 13, 2016 at 06:16|
I totally understand! Can you keep them up with them on phone or email?
|October 13, 2016 at 11:33|
Yes! We text constantly 🙂
|October 20, 2016 at 06:04|
Oh my gosh, having friend struggles. I’m dealing with that so much! One of my close guy friends now has a girlfriend (who actually has the same name as mine but a different spelling), another is on the football team (and I don’t get to hang out with him a lot), and one of my close girl friends basically has a different personality than me. I really feel like I’m going to do something and lose them.
In Proverbs, it is said that “a friend loves at all times…” (Proverbs 17:17, one of my all time favorites). If your friends really seem to think that you’re a lesser friend than the new ones, I would suggest talking with them honestly, or slowly lowering the friendship to a “just friends” level. If they decide to leave you, they’re the ones missing out. It is not your fault! I hope this helps!
|October 20, 2016 at 22:04|
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