So I have had strong feelings for one of my guy friends that I’ve known for awhile. I would even stretch to say that I’m in love with him. So I’ve never seen him on a consistent basis anymore, so its not like we hang out often anymore. He’s had a girlfriend, and when I found out I went and cried with my friend for almost an hour. I say and think that I’ve over him and then I see him or talk to him and then I miss him terribly. Now he has a new girlfriend and I do wish them the best, but I’m tried of having feelings for guy that doesn’t like me like that. So what’s the best way to move on completely? I’ve prayed for it to be washed away, but it seems to fade consciously and then pop up. Help?
|July 1, 2016 at 14:43|
I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a little over four years. In all those years, he was never really the nicest to me and never really returned the affection I had for him, which really hurt. I finally decided about a year ago that I was not going to stay in that one sided “relationship” any longer, because it was very unhealthy emotionally. So I would say the best way to move on completely would be this: remind yourself that a relationship never works when it’s one sided, and you deserve so much better. It will be difficult to walk away from this guy, but always remember that you, as God’s princess, deserve a guy who will pursue you and do anything he can to be with you. Never settle! Always wait for God’s best! Always keep the door open for friendship with this guy, though, and maybe it’s God’s plan for you and him to work out someday in the future! But for now in the circumstances that you are in, continue praying for God’s help in moving on, and pray that God will give you feelings of true love towards a guy only when he’s the one God approves. I really hope this helped! Stay strong!
|July 30, 2016 at 11:47|
I know exactly how you feel. I litterly just found out how to move on.
1. Hang out with Godly friends (girls)
|August 19, 2016 at 10:21|
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