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fhureader

fhureader

I have a question… When you’re texting a guy or taking to him on a phone and you haven’t replied for a while or you have to go because you’re about to take a shower, is it wrong to tell a guy that you’re about to shower? I know that guys get mental images very easily and I didn’t know if that would be something that could cause them to have inappropriate thoughts… Just wondering…

June 25, 2015 at 10:35
Juanita11

Juanita11

Nah, I don’t see why. I tell people all the time. I think that it’s fine .We all do it, and he knows that.

June 25, 2015 at 11:13
emilylk94

emilylk94

I always just pick a word to make it sound less attractive lol. I say something weird like cleansing my skin or I have to go decontaminate.

June 25, 2015 at 15:09
f u

f u

Whenever I am talking to guy I literally just say “Hang on, I’m getting naked for the shower.” Or “Ill be back, gotta take a shower.” But, I am a very open person.. Very open. I will literally say or do anything. I met someone for the first time yesterday at work. And we then had a 10 minute long conversation about tampons..

June 25, 2015 at 18:44
Juanita11

Juanita11

@f u
That is awesome ! I love those people that you can have open convos about weird things!

June 25, 2015 at 22:17
princesst

princesst

no its just the way you say it

June 26, 2015 at 06:33
Marissarulz

Marissarulz

Try to avoid saying where you’re going if you can, but if he asks, tell him. If you’re casual about it, he probably won’t think it’s a big deal and may not imagine… That. If you try to hide it:

You: I’ll be right back
Him: Okay
You: I’m back now 🙂
Him: Say, where’d you go, anyway?
You: Noooowhere…
Him: Tell meeee

Suddenly it’s an issue that he can notice, and he’ll be more likely to see it as a big deal. So, in short, be inconspicuous.

Or, you could just never shower. That solves the problem completely. XD

June 26, 2015 at 08:52
f u

f u

I mean everyone showers. It’s not a secret.

Story time!
So me and my friend Tom (Who I like and I am nearly positive he likes me. He sort of told me but anyways…) we were texting last night and he asked If he should take a shower and i was just like i don’t care.. I’m the one who needs a shower, I smell like chlorine (I am a swim teacher at a pool near us and work 5-8 hour days at the pool) and he was just like ooooh we could shower together! I was just like wow, that escalated very fast. then we just both went to take showers and it was never mentioned again. lol
Shower conversations are sometimes the funniest. Though our conversations are not pg.. We talk about lap dances and stripping sooo…

June 27, 2015 at 11:45
Project Inspired

rinnierose

I mean it depends. If you arent close or super comfortable being that blunt then just say you’ll be back,you have to take care of something or even just don’t respond and when you do just say something came up. But if I’m close and comfortable being “human” around a guy then I just politely say “I’m gonna shower brb” or “sorry I had to shower”. Just depends on the guy you are texting I guess lol
Although once my ex sent me a snapchat of his clothes on the bathroom floor and was saying he was gonna shower…… >.< I would strongly avoid that (Thankfully he never did anything like that again lol).
I don't think it is bad unless to try to make it sound sensual or sexual. Hope that helped!

June 28, 2015 at 22:27
Nate

Nate

Just say this: “I gtg. Talk to ya later.” It’s not like you have to advertise that info to him. You don’t HAVE to tell people where you r going. 😀

June 29, 2015 at 12:42
ktuck22

ktuck22

I personally don’t see the problem. I mean, I used to wonder about this too but then I remembered that everyone does it so you know, who cares?

June 29, 2015 at 14:44
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