I have a question… When you’re texting a guy or taking to him on a phone and you haven’t replied for a while or you have to go because you’re about to take a shower, is it wrong to tell a guy that you’re about to shower? I know that guys get mental images very easily and I didn’t know if that would be something that could cause them to have inappropriate thoughts… Just wondering…
|June 25, 2015 at 10:35|
Nah, I don’t see why. I tell people all the time. I think that it’s fine .We all do it, and he knows that.
|June 25, 2015 at 11:13|
I always just pick a word to make it sound less attractive lol. I say something weird like cleansing my skin or I have to go decontaminate.
|June 25, 2015 at 15:09|
Whenever I am talking to guy I literally just say “Hang on, I’m getting naked for the shower.” Or “Ill be back, gotta take a shower.” But, I am a very open person.. Very open. I will literally say or do anything. I met someone for the first time yesterday at work. And we then had a 10 minute long conversation about tampons..
|June 25, 2015 at 18:44|
|June 25, 2015 at 22:17|
no its just the way you say it
|June 26, 2015 at 06:33|
Try to avoid saying where you’re going if you can, but if he asks, tell him. If you’re casual about it, he probably won’t think it’s a big deal and may not imagine… That. If you try to hide it:
You: I’ll be right back
Suddenly it’s an issue that he can notice, and he’ll be more likely to see it as a big deal. So, in short, be inconspicuous.
Or, you could just never shower. That solves the problem completely. XD
|June 26, 2015 at 08:52|
I mean everyone showers. It’s not a secret.
|June 27, 2015 at 11:45|
I mean it depends. If you arent close or super comfortable being that blunt then just say you’ll be back,you have to take care of something or even just don’t respond and when you do just say something came up. But if I’m close and comfortable being “human” around a guy then I just politely say “I’m gonna shower brb” or “sorry I had to shower”. Just depends on the guy you are texting I guess lol
|June 28, 2015 at 22:27|
Just say this: “I gtg. Talk to ya later.” It’s not like you have to advertise that info to him. You don’t HAVE to tell people where you r going. 😀
|June 29, 2015 at 12:42|
I personally don’t see the problem. I mean, I used to wonder about this too but then I remembered that everyone does it so you know, who cares?
|June 29, 2015 at 14:44|
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