I’d say to tell the guy maybe, but not yet. Don’t give a definitive answer. Be like, you really hurt me so I need time to recover and then maybe we can be friends. And then take the time to yourself to realize what you want.
I agree with pjbaseballgirl , take a step back for awhile. I completely understand what your going through. A guy said some extremely hurtful things to me, ignored me for awhile then one day started trying to talk to me again. Im sorey to say this, but there’s always the chance he will hurt you again. But if you take a time out and pray, God will work it out for the best 🙂