Hey, everyone. So since October I dated a guy who was an atheist, and I brought him to church since the beginning of the relationship. So, on Monday he broke up with me and it’s been so hard. He says he doesn’t love me anymore, but he still wants to come to youth group. And I want to say he still can and is welcome, but it’s just so hard to love him after he hurt me like this. I guess I know the answer already- forgive him and tell him he is welcome. But I need encouragement I guess and maybe guidance on how to deal with this, because its the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. Love you all(:
|January 10, 2015 at 15:39|
Oh one more thing- he told me that he believes in God now, but doesn’t believe in the bible yet. So church seems to be getting through to him.
|January 10, 2015 at 15:47|
In October, my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. It was super, like super hard. I was not the type of person who had trouble with forgiveness but with him it has taken me months. And I have never felt more free. I had to be careful to not talk bad about him, it always made me feel worse afterwards. I kept dwelling on it, so I just finally let it go. It sounds simple but it was difficult for me and it takes time. Whenever you want to think bad about him, ask God to help refocus your mind. Jesus said in Matthew 11:28 said come all who are weary and carry heavy burdens and He will give you rest. All I can tell you that in this hard time is give it all to God and just go all in for Him. Let your focus be put on Him. You got this girl. I will be praying for strength and peace to overflow in your life.
|January 20, 2015 at 03:43|
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