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I have a guy friend that I’m close with. He’s a few years younger than me, and I’m friends with sister and mom. So I used to have a crush on him, and he knew. And I think he might have a little crush on me as well. My dilemma is that he\’s a few steps back from God. He grew up in church, but he’s become offended with the church his mom and I go too (not his home church) and his family was berated with gossip and harsh people in the town. So he’s not too keen on that area.
My real question is whether or not I should still hang out with him. See him yes, but I don\’t know. I love him and I care about him and I dont want to drop completely out of his life. I was praying and think about it that we shouldn’t spend time with people of the world because they could negatively influence us, however the passage of the bible where Paul eats with the non Jewish people and eats unclean food comes to mind. To minister to someone you must be a part of their lives.
Then to the “he’s younger, a step from God, we’ve had feelings for each other” Would still hugging him goodbye and sitting next to him still be okay. I know I can’t treat him as I would a girl friend, but we’re comfortable with each other.
It\’s like I like him, but I wouldn’t date him. I don’t want to lead him on, but I don’t want to end our friendship. I like to hug him and sit next to him.
Oh I almost forgot, he has a good character and good heart. He respects me, and I love him (though I’ve never said it out loud) He believes that without a doubt that there’s a God, but he thinks he\’s too young (16) to get serious.

August 8, 2015 at 10:12


I personally would kindly tell him how you feel, whether its via text email or you say it to his face. Just be honest with him. Tell him you are doing this because you care!
good luck!!

August 27, 2015 at 22:48
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