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He paid for my lunch. What does that mean?

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So I met this guy that goes to my church on campus. We got to know each other over the summer because we were both in this leadership training program. After the program was over, we had about a two week break before we came back to campus for school. During those two weeks, we texted each other and had some good conversations. I asked him if he wanted to hang out once we both got back to campus and he said sure. So we went to Chipotle for lunch last week and before I ordered he said that he was paying so don’t worry about what to get and that I could get anything. I was like, “UM I think this means something.” So afterwards I went online and looked up a bunch of stuff about how to tell if a guy likes you or not (I know, so dumb). I saw that if the guy pays for you, that means that he’s interested in you and likes you. I told on of my friends who knows him and she just said to kind of not get too excited. He’s suuuch a nice guy and he’s not very conscious about how he is with girls and how somethings that he does could seem to us girls as him being interested in us but it’s him actually just being nice. I’m just really confused and have been kind of anxious about the whole situation.

September 7, 2015 at 14:16
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I mean at this point it could go either way… That’s so hard to be in that place though!
How often do you text and is he very interested in finding out things about you? Have you been talking since? And did he mention meeting up again? The fact that he was texting you and bought lunch means that at least he cares about you.
That is how things started for me and my boyfriend… And I did all the google searching thing too lol Guys are confusing. Maybe he is still trying to figure you out?
If you two are still texting then just enjoy the moment and show your subtle interest in him and his life. And pray! Hopefully he gets up the nerve to pursue you:)

September 13, 2015 at 15:13
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