I’ve been friends with a godly guy & he as we got to know each other more he told me he cares for me & I told him I did too.Were getting to know each other as friends first & praying about us.He said he can see himself marrying me, and considers me his best friend. We always have deep personal talks.I saw him this past weekend for a church service we talked after every service, and he even made me a hot tea(thats our thing). Hes told all his friends, family and my friends thats were talking and that im very special. Since we live 7 hours away, these past 4 months hes texted & called me basically everyday and lately this week he hasn’t called or texted at all.When I do text him,if he replys he takes forever, the last text he said he was with his friends, Does he still care for me?, is he busy? or just needs space? Should I ask him if anything is wrong, if i did anything wrong, or let him be until he decides to contact me?
|July 11, 2015 at 21:23|
You know, I went through such a similar situation recently. I’d say after three days of nothing, just send a little “thinking of you” text. Nothing too demanding, just like “thinking of you, hope you’re doing alright, hope this makes you smile 🙂 “. Something simple like that. And if he doesn’t respond for an entire week, send him something like “hey, haven’t heard from you in a while, and naturally I’m a little concerned for you” or something of that nature (feel free to change the words up haha 🙂 ). Trust me, you’ll get an answer. Trust me. In the meantime, keep yourself busy and try not to go insane missing him. All it does is tear you apart. And trust me, that sucks. It sucks a ton. But always remember: this too shall pass. Soon you’ll know why he hasn’t been contacting you and this whole thing will be over. Hope this helps. God bless you! 🙂 <3
|July 13, 2015 at 13:04|
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