Lately it seems like everyone is hating me… At school, some guys faces get red when they see me, and sometimes people don’t seem to notice me. Even if they’re talking to my sister and I’m right next to her! 🙁 What is that about? Am I an awful person or something? Do I ruin potential friendships?
|February 25, 2015 at 16:38|
I see nothing that makes the impression that they hate you. The guys faces turning red could be because they like you or they’re just being guys and having a breath-holding contest or something, and not being noticed might be because you aren’t trying to be noticed. If your sister is louder, or dramatic or something, people might pay more attention to her, because people are like moths, they see the most obvious thing (loudest, most dramatic) and zone in on that. I think that you might just be looking at these things and making the scenario seem worse than it actually is. (I do the same thing… all the time) Just smile, get out of your comfort zone, and talk to someone else who looks like they might be feeling alone.
|February 26, 2015 at 16:27|
No, you’re just overthinking. I used to do it all the time. Just forget yourself and focus on talking. Be you, and the right people will be your friends. You don’t have to be BFF with everyone to be happy.
|February 26, 2015 at 19:20|
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