In the summers I always get awful anxiety. I don’t know to do anymore…I’ve been fighting this off and on for years. And I always need extra love and encouragement from my friends and family, and frequent reminders they like me. What’s wrong with me?? Does this make me look desperate? One day I’ll be so happy knowing I’m loved and appreciated, then the next I’m really anxious thinking about the people who didn’t respond to my text and if they hate me. Can someone please help me? I feel like I’m annoying everyone. Plus, on top of that, I always really like guys who already have girlfriends 🙁 That definitely doesn’t help me either. Sometimes being around guys make me less anxious, but when they all get married will I still be able to be friends with them? and will I be able to find a guy I like who doesn’t have a girlfriend? Your help is greatly appreciated!
|July 8, 2015 at 09:23|
Anxiety in the summer is not uncommon. Maybe you’re experiencing a change from normal routine? Do you have hobbies? Are you out of school, away from friends? It may be separation anxiety. Maybe try inviting them to hang out in small groups in non stressful situations (a quiet cafe, sandwich shop, library).
|July 8, 2015 at 11:28|
Also, I wouldn’t worry – any guy worth being friends with wont drop his friends when he gets married.
|July 8, 2015 at 11:31|
I’m sorry, I’ve been overthinking everything lately too so I get where you’re coming from. Keep in mind that just because you think or feel something, it doesn’t mean its true. Your friends and family love you, if you need extra encouragement sometimes that’s OK 🙂 Everyone likes to hear that they’re loved and appreciated. Most of all, be kind to yourself. Don’t ever tell yourself something you wouldn’t say to a friend.
Yes, you will find a guy to like that doesn’t have a gf. And yes, you can remain friends with a guy that’s married. My pet peeve is when someone says men and women can’t “just” be friends. YES THEY CAN!!!
If you ever want to chat more, my email is Adventuregirl2264@yahoo.com. Feel free to email me anytime, I check it pretty regularly.
|July 10, 2015 at 20:16|
Thank you so much girls! I don’t know what I would do without your help!
|August 3, 2015 at 18:44|
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