Tagged: #relationships #guys
So I have a friend who I took a class with this past year and now I think he has a crush on me. He’s a super nice guy, just very very much not my type at all. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but he’s been talking to me on Facebook a lot and I don’t want to hurt his feelings but I don’t like him that way.
We’re completely different people, if he really knew me, I don’t think he’d still like me like me, which is okay with me because we’re so extremely different and come from different upbringings. I mean this in the best possible way, but he’s a little sheltered and I’m totally not. When I’m around him and the other people in my co-op, I have to be super careful about what I say and stuff because I’ll more than likely offend someone. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I will never feel the same as this guy does but I want to break it to him gently, and I really don’t want to turn him down before he even makes a move too in case I’m wrong 🙁 Help!
|May 19, 2015 at 09:56|
If there is no intent on pursuing him, but you want to remain friends with him, allow him some time to figure it out! Maybe this is his way of being a friend. If he explicitly shows interest in you, you should definitely talk to him about it. But on the side note, I had literally the same predicament. My ex was so sheltered, and I was not! But, while it recently ended, it was a good relationship, and I am glad it happened! after i got to know him better, i know the Lord has more in store for us later…and we still talk of God bringing us back together again, just a few things He needed us to see in order to continue 🙂 maybe get to know your friend better, and things may turn out unexpectedly awesome!
|May 21, 2015 at 09:07|
I honestly have no intent of pursuing him, it would honestly never work out, I’m a totally different person around him and it’s just not me and I feel fake when I’m talking to him or around him. I really feel weird about talking to him about it though, I’ve known him for a few years and this is totally abnormal for him to talk to me this much. I have feelings for someone else who also has feelings for me, so there’s no way I’m going to be anything more than just friends with this guy. I’m just confused I guess. Thanks for the advice 🙂
|May 21, 2015 at 20:51|
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