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Help! My friend likes me but I really don't feel the same!

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BridgetteMarie21

BridgetteMarie21

So I have a friend who I took a class with this past year and now I think he has a crush on me. He’s a super nice guy, just very very much not my type at all. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but he’s been talking to me on Facebook a lot and I don’t want to hurt his feelings but I don’t like him that way.

We’re completely different people, if he really knew me, I don’t think he’d still like me like me, which is okay with me because we’re so extremely different and come from different upbringings. I mean this in the best possible way, but he’s a little sheltered and I’m totally not. When I’m around him and the other people in my co-op, I have to be super careful about what I say and stuff because I’ll more than likely offend someone. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I will never feel the same as this guy does but I want to break it to him gently, and I really don’t want to turn him down before he even makes a move too in case I’m wrong 🙁 Help!

May 19, 2015 at 09:56
that_veggie

that_veggie

If there is no intent on pursuing him, but you want to remain friends with him, allow him some time to figure it out! Maybe this is his way of being a friend. If he explicitly shows interest in you, you should definitely talk to him about it. But on the side note, I had literally the same predicament. My ex was so sheltered, and I was not! But, while it recently ended, it was a good relationship, and I am glad it happened! after i got to know him better, i know the Lord has more in store for us later…and we still talk of God bringing us back together again, just a few things He needed us to see in order to continue 🙂 maybe get to know your friend better, and things may turn out unexpectedly awesome!

May 21, 2015 at 09:07
BridgetteMarie21

BridgetteMarie21

I honestly have no intent of pursuing him, it would honestly never work out, I’m a totally different person around him and it’s just not me and I feel fake when I’m talking to him or around him. I really feel weird about talking to him about it though, I’ve known him for a few years and this is totally abnormal for him to talk to me this much. I have feelings for someone else who also has feelings for me, so there’s no way I’m going to be anything more than just friends with this guy. I’m just confused I guess. Thanks for the advice 🙂

May 21, 2015 at 20:51
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