Hey PI girls! ^_^)/
|January 13, 2015 at 05:58|
First, welcome to the US! 🙂
If the relationship is taking longer to take off than you want, consider the fact that YOU may be ready, but God’s still working on his heart and personality. Or, God could still be working on you so your relationship will be even better than you expected! 😉
It’s possible the guy likes someone else, but that doesn’t really mean anything. If he’s the man God wants you to marry, he will start wanting to pursue a relationship with you eventually. Give him time. Sometimes people go through several relationships before they find the right person, so he could just still be searching.
Or maybe he really likes you and he’s just not showing it because he’s afraid of rejection. Be friends with him first, then you can get to know him and see if that’s the case.
Remember, the only “perfect” people are the ones we don’t know well 😉 Everyone is weird and unperfect in their own way.
So, to sum it up, pursue a friendship with him first. Just say hi. If he seems standoffish he’s probably just shy. Pursue a friendship with him because *you* like him, and care about him, not because you desperately need him to like you. Does that make sense?
|January 13, 2015 at 10:21|
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