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Soccerfan99

Hi, so I’ve known him since 8th grade, sort of. My bff introduced us over text around 8th or 9th grade for me. He and my bff are a year younger. They went to the same school and I was homeschooled. We quickly met at his 8th grade graduation, I mean quick like “hey congrats” “thanks” lol. Anyways, he moved. We followed each other on IG and texted every once in a while so we sort of kept in touch. My junior year I started going to his old school. This year, my senior year, he came back. We quickly hit it off again. For like the first 3 weeks everyone thought we were a thing because no one knew that he and I had previously been friends. We text everyday and see each other two days of week at school (we go to a charter school) I think I like him. I only have one class with him and usually he sits next to me but when he doesn’t, I feel hurt. I know I shouldn’t but t freakin help it. It doesn’t bother me much anymore, thanks to a lot of prayer. But the only thing that bothers me about liking him is that he’s younger. I don’t like the idea of marrying someone younger. I feel like it makes the girl look eager when he is younger than she is. Idk what do you girls think? (Sorry that it’s so long) thanks so much โค๏ธ

October 25, 2016 at 17:37
MacDawn1999

MacDawn1999

Honestly, I think that as long as he loves Jesus and cares about you and your boundaries, then it shouldn’t matter how old he is. One year younger isn’t that big of a deal, especially when you hit college. I think if you focus on your friendship then God will show you what he wants with this relationship. Praying for you NOW. ๐Ÿ™‚

October 26, 2016 at 05:59
theteenfashionista

theteenfashionista

If he’s too young, he’s too young. There’s millions of guys in the world, but you’re perfect the way you are ๐Ÿ˜€

October 26, 2016 at 09:55
marisa145

marisa145

While I do think you having an issue with the age difference might be a tip off to stay away (there may be red flags that have nothing to do with his age that could be hiding) and this is God’s way of protecting you from that HOWEVER, if you’ve known him this long and this is your only hiccup especially since it’s only a year, I wouldn’t really think too much of it. Ask yourself, if you all were the same age, would you still want to pursue a relationship with him? If it makes you feel any better, my mom is older than my dad by about the same age. ๐Ÿ˜€

October 30, 2016 at 20:14
Trust Him

Trust Him

Hey Soccerfan99,
I’m glad to hear that you have been praying a lot about this situation, because prayer, along with diving into the Bible are ways that God will lead you. When you say he’s perfect (I know no one is really perfect) does that mean he is really seeking God? Watch his character and how he treats others. I know how awkward the thought of being with someone younger than you feels, but if down the line, you do end up with him the difference won’t matter.
Be patient and don’t let your mind come up with fantasies of what you hope he is.
Just some thoughts ๐Ÿ™‚
Don’t forget to trust Him

November 23, 2016 at 13:16
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