Alright ladies, I need help. I’m not sure how many of you will be able to relate to this, but I figured I’d give it a shot.
|February 11, 2015 at 02:52|
Sounds like he’s dropping hints that he doesn’t WANT you to witness to him. Were you trying to witness when he became distant?
It’s entirely possible that he’s had bad experiences with Christians shoving their religion down his throat.
|February 12, 2015 at 12:38|
We haven’t talked about my faith since the summer, and it wasn’t until recently that he’s started becoming distant. I really just think it’s because he’s been really busy. I make it a point not to shove my religious views on anyone, so it’s not that. I’m just confused, although when the team gets back from this weekend’s series he and I are going to go get coffee together (just as friends). So I guess that’s a step in the right direction again.
|February 12, 2015 at 15:49|
I’m sure you weren’t shoving, but he may be afraid that you might.
|February 12, 2015 at 20:43|
I get the impression that he’s unsure of the whole God thing. Guys are weird like that especially in this kind of situation. Keep being their keep hanging out with him and texting him. So many guys like him who play hockey and other sports at an elite level (college, juniors, pros) have a hard time trusting people out of fear that they’re only befriending them because they’re famous or going to be. Google Hockey Ministries International, my boyfriend’s last junior team had a chaplain from the ministry for the team and the organization is amazing and they have a lot of good blog posts. If you feel like you have a good opportunity to talk to no about it again do it!! Always stress the point that God loves everyone no matter what he wise that’s so important especially in this type of situation. What school do you go to? They might have a chaplain from HMI that comes to games and if they do he or she would be a great person to talk to about it!
|March 20, 2015 at 05:57|
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