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Last year my best friend of 5 years and I drifted apart. We now barely ever talk and I miss her so much. But she had turned into a person who gossips and stabs people in the back. She wants popularity more than she wants a good friendship. She started not talking to me for weeks on end and ignored me when I most needed her. I fought for our friendship but I was the only one who even seemed to care.
She used to be a really good person, now she only cares about how many instagram followers she has. She replaced me and just doesn’t care anymore it’s like she completely forgets me till she needs to vent. And every time she needs someone to talk to, I have been there for her within seconds and it only hurts me. But I can’t not help her.
How do I make it not hurt. How do I feel okay again. She’s been my best friend since I was nine years old and now I can’t trust her. She had told me that if I need her she there but I’m afraid of trusting her again because I can’t loose her a second time. I just want to call her and ask why I wasn’t worth fighting for. Why did she stop caring?
How do I get rid of this hole that came when she left. How do I stop crying my eyes out at night b because of someone who doesn’t care anymore?

April 12, 2016 at 00:38


I haven’t gone through anything quite like this. In a sense, yes, but as the other person. 🙁
So – I’m hesitantly giving you what has helped me at times. Everything that I wish I could tell them at that moment, I’ll write in a letter to them, then I’ll pray over it and let it go – then trash it and move on as best I know how.
I can only imagine what you’re going through, but I will pray for you if you like.

April 13, 2016 at 12:49


I haven’t had a situation that bad yet, but I know how it feels when a friend dumps you. It hurts so bad, but God is still there for you. As an extrovert, I’d start looking for new friends, better friends (church is a good place to start). I’ve been reading about friends. Remember Jonathan and David? They loved each other as they loved themselves. And don’t hesitate to talk about the Lord with them! Remember, you do have a friend who sticks closer than a brother…and he’ll always be with you. 🙂

April 18, 2016 at 14:01
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