Not entirely sure how to start this, because well, my mind is all mixed up in itself and I’m not even sure what I’m afraid of. I guess that’s how fear works, eh?
|November 5, 2015 at 22:10|
It’s totally normal to feel all of that. Just be open to him. Tell him your fears. Just like you did on here. From there you two can move on, either into a relationship or a friendship. If he doesn’t feel the same way, then you can continue being friends and not regret later ruining a friendship because you dated him. If it is a relationship lay down rules. Keep it holy and make it a relationship that glorifies God. I hope this helped. (:
|November 6, 2015 at 14:19|
well assume if you two end up in a relationship it will be scary. It’s terrifying and you feel so many different things. But you know what? That is totally normal 🙂
Just keep praying and trusting that everything that’s meant to happen will! Best wishes 🙂
|November 10, 2015 at 17:45|
Oh and when it comes to getting to the vulnerability and having that deep connection of really getting to understand each other… well it takes a lot of time. When you start dating it is scary to be open and honest but over time as you build that friendship it becomes easy. Just make sure he is someone who can communicate well. Over time too you guys will get better at reading each others tones and body language. I always thought no one was good at really knowing me and reading me but oh man for some reason my boyfriend is so attentive. I think it happens with attraction and the desire to make the other person happy. I mean I still have a lot that I have to communicate to him but over time you get each other.
|November 13, 2015 at 16:38|
Your last reply, rinnie rose. Hit the nail on the head!!!i guess that’s what I’m most afraid of…I know I want that deep connection that You described so perfectly. Like you really got it. I was just stressing on how exactly to get to that point.scared that maybe it just wasnt there. But I think you are right. It takes time and good communication. I’m so ready to just enter the relationship so we an start building that. 🙂
|November 16, 2015 at 12:37|
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