I have always been confused with what exactly staying pure means and how far is too far exactly. This confusion has just gotten worse since I got my first boyfriend four months ago. I have never had sex with him, but sometimes I wonder if what I am doing with him is going too far. Could anyone help me understand how far is too far when it comes to physical intimacy?
The question is not “how far is too far?”, but “is what I am doing glorifying God?” I totally understand your confusion. During my last relationship, I felt like this ALL the time and because I enjoyed having a boyfriend and all that comes with it I didn’t want it to end. When it comes to a question like this, people draw “the line”. The line for some people can be a kiss or before sex. The sad thing is that many cross the line, because as humans we have a tendency of doing that. So I guess what I’m trying to say is have you crossed the line in your relationship? Have you gone farther than you were willing to go at the start of your relationship? I hope it helped. I’m sorry if it didn’t. God bless.