Tagged: #relationships #guys #college
I’m not sure if this would qualify as a relationship question but I’m going to throw it out here anyway.
|April 30, 2015 at 10:18|
Well, first of all: is he a Christian? Is his love for God very evident in his life? If he isn’t a Christian – and isn’t wholeheartedly committed to the Lord – then it doesn’t matter if he’s a million years older than you, or even if he’s your same age. It wouldn’t be wise for you to pursue him.
Now, about the age gap: four years isn’t a big deal at all. I know several married couples who are ten years apart and happy as clams. Regarding the problem of you not being eighteen until December, I’d say that you should spend some time praying about this. Get to know him more. Talk about the issue with your parents. Don’t just ignore those feelings – confront them. Ask God for wisdom. Your parents should be able to help you make the right decision as well.
|April 30, 2015 at 11:57|
I don’t really see that as a problem if he is a good respectful guy and if he has the right intentions. The guy I’m seeing is almost 5 years older then I am and so far there isn’t a problem. You are in different stages of your lives though so do keep that in mind. He’s old enough to drink and probably has more freedom then you and that could lead to friction.
|April 30, 2015 at 17:27|
Thanks @wingedeloquence and @rinnierose, I appreciate it and apologize for not replying sooner! 🙂 Unfortunately, he went back home for the summer, so I can’t see him until school starts again at the end of August 🙁 I really appreciate your advice though!!
|May 19, 2015 at 09:43|
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