So I know all the typical just be yourself, if he doesn’t respond don’t force it etc etc.
|July 28, 2015 at 18:00|
I used to have so much trouble with this. It takes practice. The more you do it, the easier and more comfortable you’ll find it. The fact that you like him will make it more awkward. Don’t let that deter you, though–You almost certainly feel WAY more awkward then you sound. There’s something about liking a guy that makes me always feel like I’m saying the wrong thing in front of him. Ask him open questions about how his life is–ask him how the band’s going, how’s traveling, where has he been visiting, what he’s been doing, anything that gets a conversation going. If you know of anything he likes or is interested in, ask him about that. (If you don’t know, do a little internet stalking to get a feel for what he likes, though don’t make it obvious you’ve done your homework on him.) I would also really recommend Dale Carnegie’s book How to Make Friends and Influence People. It’s a great book on conversation and talking to people.
|July 29, 2015 at 01:12|
Hi! I actually wrote a blog post about this. Here’s the link!
|August 25, 2015 at 15:08|
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