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Ok, so basically, I feel empty. I admit the story behind it might sound extremely stupid and I really wouldn’t be offended or anything if you told me it is. So basically, a couple years ago, a new family moved to town, from which two of the kids were in my grade. I developed a HUGE crush on one of them. and then two years ago, my feelings were totally obliterated when I saw him with a girl he was only dating because she would put out. Now, you might be thinking, “why aren’t you putting this on one of the relationship forums?” And my answer would be, before I stopped liking this guy, I was nicer, more caring, and most importantly, I was the closest to God than I have ever been. But ever since, I have felt empty inside. Like I’m incapable of love, and the media has also drilled doubts into my brain, even though I know I have no reason to doubt. I’ve been praying and raying about it, I’ve restarted reading the Bible, but I just don’t know what to do anymore.

June 28, 2015 at 09:04
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I’m sorry you’re having a tough time. So I kinda understand: I went to this amazing Christian camp for a week summer and I met this great
guy and liked him a lot, and we connected so much and j thought maybe he liked me. It was going great cause he was like the first guy I’ve liked like that in a long time so I was so excited. But then later into the week, me and my friend (who I later found out also kinda liked him) were talking to him and it came up somehow that he transferred schools because he got his ex girlfriend pregnant, and she got an abortion. Once I heard that my heart kind of just dropped because I was definitely not expecting that, nobody would be I don’t think. And it made me really sad for the rest of the day because I was so excited before and now that kind of just complicated and maybe ruined things. I mean, it was a CHRISTIAN camp so I was like what? He is Christian and just made a big mistake. I still don’t know what to do about it and am confused about my feelings, but I have just been praying about it and talking to one of my friends about it. (sorry for that long story)
My advice is to keep praying about it and talk to someone about it. You can get some insight into what they think – preferably get another Christian’s opinion? – because that helped me. Think about if that is what you want in a guy or if you want to forgive that action. Pray. Decide whether or not you think he might change, and think about (even if it’s not what you want to tell yourself) if before you liked this guy, you would have thought about dating a sexually impure guy like this that would date for that reason if that makes sense. Like, would you have dated someone like that before meeting this guy? And do you think You deserve someone better than that? Andddd keep praying.
I don’t know if that made any sense or if that even helped, but please feel free to email me at dojtravels@gmail.com or message me on here if that’s possible.
Seriously, I’m available to talk anytime if you want someone 🙂
Praying for you! <3

July 27, 2015 at 21:56


I personally think that you are on the right track to renewing your mind, now that you into the Word and connecting with God.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will.”– Romans 12:2
Know who God is. Know that God loves you greatly. He does. If nothing else should comfort you, knowing that God is with you and is FOR you should help. There is hope, there is peace, there is love, there is joy for you in God. Pray to God that He will give it to you. He shall. God isn’t done with your life and is walking with you at every step, He has a plan for you, so have hope that there are still many great things for you ahead. Where you fall short, God will cover for you.
“For he satisfies the longing soul, and the hungry soul he fills with good things.”– Psalms 107:9
That is a PROMISE from God, and God is faithful even to the very end. So you can count that God will fill your soul because He said He would in His Word. There are many promises in the bible, your birthrights as a believer. Hold them true to your heart, with the assurance that God will fulfill what He said He would for you as one.


Much love and God bless you sister!

July 29, 2015 at 15:23
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