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I don't want to feel used!!! Please help.

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was raped before but thats a long story to tell. I really really like this guy. And he makes me feel safe, the way he holds my haND and talks to me and his personality makes me feel safe. He actually told me and asked me if he would be okay with touching my butt. I told him I wouldn’t feel o
Confterable. He told me he wants to feel me and touch me. Not innaproproatly. But just my butt or something. I really really like him. His a christian and he told me that he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me. But just the fact that he wants to touch me , makes me feel like his using me or somethig. I don’t know if I should continue seeing him or anything like that. I don’t know if maybe I should break everything off with him. I don’t know what to feel.about him. Maybe the whole guy touching thing is normal for a guy to think? His just brave enough to tell me. I just.. am a little worried and don’t know if this is a sign that I need to leave him or not

July 18, 2015 at 03:40


Sweetie, I am very sorry for your trauma. Please know that it was not your fault and that the Lord loves you very much. Lean on him when times are tough.
I really think this guy is bad news. He may say he is a Christian but he doesn’t really know what the means yet. I would leave him alone and focus on the Lord. Let the Lord guide you and as you wait on Him he will bless you with the right man. Trust me, this man isn’t the right one. At least not right now. Maybe down the road, he will change. But for now focus on Jesus.
Don’t ever let anyone use your body. If you don’t want to do it, don’t!

I hope it goes well, my sister in Christ!

July 28, 2015 at 06:40
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I know this is kind of late, but if this guy is saying he wants to touch you like that….I can’t think of any good or pure reason why he would feel the need “feel you”. Hope everything worked out…..I’m so sorry about your past. NO ONE should have to go through something like that.

October 21, 2015 at 08:29
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