Okay, so I’ve known this guy for the past year. We’ve never said a word to each other. He goes to one church I go to another and we both happen to go to this OThEr churches youth group. That youth group went on a retreat this past weekend and it was a really great time and experience. It was a really emotional and amazing weekend. On that retreat we became really good friends and talked a lot and everyone thought there was something between us and I was like nawwww. And then he keeps making excuses to talk to me or sit next to me (for example on this retreat we went skiing. Me and my friend were the only two girls and we nearly everytime took the lift together. But one time he came up next to me and was like oh looks like *we’ll call her Abby. Abby isnt here. You’re stuck with me. That was just an example.) after skiing I gave him my number so he could send the pictures he took to me. On the 8 hour bus ride home I was lying on top of him and out other friend (our youth group is really tight and all comfortable with each other. This was normal.) and he had his arm around back. I fell asleep on him and then we were home. I live 20 minutes from him but take classes at a college across from his high school. I work at a bookstore there and it happened that we hung out afterwards. (Neither of us remember o asked who) it was really fun and comfortable and not awkward at all. We both agreed it was fun and that we should do it again. I thijk I like him but at other times I am not sure. On the way home from the time we hung out we were texting and I asked what that was and he was like well we’re only friends right? And I was like yeahhh. And then I was like @&$&@%#% I ruined it. We text/snapchat constantly and people are like yeah, they’re getting together. But I dunno if he likes me now. It seemed obvious but now I dunno. (Sorry if this is all over the place. I am really tired) does that all make sense? He’s a really good Christian guy and I i trust him with my like and we like the same things and see both incredibly sarcastic and it sounds weird but he is the first guy that I don’t wanna like because I don’t wanna mess it up by liking him. So, I dunno… Help? lol, thoughts?
|January 23, 2015 at 17:13|
I’m kind of dealing with the same thing on Boss Crush, we snapchat a lot, and he treats me like that. He asked me if I liked him when we had firsts met and I laughed and said no so he’s like, “yeah I was gonna say…no just no” and laughed. I had thought about just sitting him down and telling him how I feel about everything, cuz I know for sure he likes me, I’m just not sure if it’s enough. And I honestly thought about just chancing it anyway, but becuz he doesn’t love God the way I do, I won’t. I won’t put myself through something like that, he needs to pursue God for himself, without me trying to act like I know what’s best for him bcuz of my Christian views. If the guy you like loves God, I would chance it and sit down and talk to him about it. If he says no then you know he isn’t right for you and you can start moving on. I like doing gutsy stuff like that, where there is no way out but through, and just deal with the consequences, you never know he could be great
|January 27, 2015 at 09:49|
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