Hi girls. Okay, so this is a touchy subject, but we’re all girls here, so here I go! And before I go any further, I am a virgin and plan on abstinence til marriage. However, I feel I have been desensitized to premarital sex…. I know, it’s bad! One of my friends had an affair (or I like to call it Moments In The Woods… hehe I love Into The Woods!) with this guy for like, a while. Or I guess you could just say sex before marriage And then one of my old best friends had sex before she was married too. I feel like girls are getting pregnant right and left! A couple years ago, I was so disturbed by it. But now, I feel like I am not as disturbed as I should be. I know it is an act of intimacy that should only be shared by a husband and wife, but I guess I just don’t understand completely. You know what I’m saying? For the record, I am not getting any ideas, although I think every girl struggles with sexual tension every once in a while. I guess I just need a reminder that sex outside of marriage (Moments in the woods, whatever you want to call it ;)) is not okay. Thanks!
|February 11, 2015 at 11:18|
I mean, you don;’t have to feel active repulsion and horror to disagree with something and draw a moral line. As long as you cognitively know it’s not a good thing for you to do or for someone to want you to do that, I’m not sure your morals ARE weakening.
|February 11, 2015 at 17:15|
My advice would be to pray for the girls that are having sex outside of marriage and ask God to re-sensitize you to the subject… also remember to show love to them… “Preach the gospel, and use words if necessary.” ~Francis of Assisi
|February 11, 2015 at 17:21|
Hmm that’s true. @Mary I guess it just you know, depends on my thought life and stuff. Deep down, I know it is not acceptable although I don’t feel like that every second. Thanks for the feedback to both of you!
|February 11, 2015 at 18:31|
I agree with mary. It’s a thing that happens a LOT. If you see something a lot, it doesn’t shock you anymore.
|February 12, 2015 at 12:09|
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